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Emily
Can we finally figure out who's picking her up on Saturday?9:14 AM
You're just not a good coparent, that's the real problem here.9:16 AM
Deflection
The pickup question never got answered.
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Guilt-Tripping
Whataboutism
Deflection
"You know what, I'll figure everything myself" — this frames her having to handle things alone as your fault.
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